Dear Friend,
During my time at Belmont, being part of a Bible study—and eventually leading one—transformed the trajectory of my faith journey in college. While I’ve learned so much about Scripture, it’s not the specific studies that stand out the most. What I’ll carry with me is how the Lord used these communities to love me and invite me into a deeper relationship with Him.
Being part of a Bible study is about more than gathering weekly to discuss Scripture (though this is important)—it’s about creating a Christ-centered community where members feel known, valued, and supported. Whether you’re a Bible study member or leader, you have an important role in fostering these connections and helping others grow in faith. Here are practical tips to deepen relationships and build authentic community in your Bible study:
- Invest in One-on-One Conversations
Take the time to connect individually with members of your Bible study. As a leader, meeting one-on-one allows you to understand their faith journey, pray with them, and provide encouragement tailored to their needs. As a member, reaching out to someone in the group for coffee or a walk can deepen friendships and build trust. These small gestures go a long way in creating meaningful relationships.
- Encourage Accountability Partners
Pairing members as accountability partners fosters deeper relationships and helps everyone stay focused on their spiritual goals. Encourage partners to check in with each other regularly, share prayer intentions, and discuss how they’re living out the lessons from Bible study. It’s a simple yet effective way to cultivate connections beyond group meetings.
- Keep the Conversation Going During the Week
An active group chat can help build community between meetings. Share prayer requests, Scripture passages, or updates on life events. As a leader, take the initiative to share something personal or encouraging—it sets the tone for others to feel comfortable sharing, too. As a member, contribute by being present and supportive in the chat. Over time, this communication helps the group feel more like a close-knit community.
- Share Life Outside of Bible Study
Community grows when you spend time together outside of the formal setting. If someone in your group is involved in an event—like a musical performance, a sports game, or a bake sale—attend as a group to show support. Leaders can organize casual hangouts, like movie nights, hikes, or dinners, where members can bond in a relaxed environment.
- Lead with Authenticity and Vulnerability
Authenticity and vulnerability build trust and encourage others to open up. Whether you’re a leader or member, share your own struggles and victories in faith with honesty. When others see that they’re not alone in their challenges, it creates a safe space where real growth and connection can happen.
- Create a Welcoming Atmosphere
For both leaders and members, creating a welcoming environment is key. Greet everyone warmly, make space for all voices to be heard, and avoid cliques. Leaders can start each session with a prayer for unity, while members can reach out to someone new or quieter in the group. Ensuring everyone feels valued makes the Bible study a place people look forward to returning to.
- Pray for One Another
Prayer is one of the most powerful ways to build community. Dedicate time during meetings to share prayer requests and pray together as a group. Outside of meetings, pray for your group members individually. Let them know you’re praying for them—it’s a simple but profound way to show love and support.
- Celebrate Together
Celebrate both big and small milestones in your group. Whether it’s a birthday, a new job, a completed study, or an answered prayer, take time to acknowledge and rejoice in each other’s blessings. Celebrating together builds joy and gratitude in the group.
- Stay Consistent
Consistency builds trust and reliability in relationships. Show up for your group meetings, stay engaged in discussions, and follow through on commitments, whether you’re a leader or member. Consistency helps people feel secure and connected over time.
Building a strong, Christ-centered community in your Bible study takes time and effort, but it’s incredibly rewarding. We can’t grow in relationship with Christ alone. We need others to help us along the way. Whether you’re leading the group or simply attending, your actions and intentions can help create a space where faith, friendship, and growth flourish.
With Love and Prayers,
A Community Loving Catholic Girl
Aka Jillian
