Dear Friend,
I have just two days of college left—literally two (and then finals but that is neither here nor there)! In less than two weeks, I’ll be graduating and stepping into a brand-new chapter of life. As exciting as that sounds, I find myself caught in a tension: part of me is eager to finish finals and move forward, while another part aches at the thought of saying goodbye to the incredible community and friendships I’ve built here.
To be honest, I haven’t really taken the time to process this huge life change, but I wanted to reflect on it now. Transitioning—whether it’s graduating, starting a new semester, or beginning a new job—is always an adjustment. It’s a mix of excitement, uncertainty, and the challenge of leaving behind what’s familiar.
As someone who has never been a fan of change, this season is both challenging and beautiful. I’ve loved my time at Belmont University and am deeply comfortable here. It feels safe, familiar, and good. But the Lord, in His perfect timing, is gently reminding me that growth doesn’t happen in our comfort zones. To step into His plans for the future, I have to embrace the ending of this chapter—even if it’s hard.
For anyone who’s been living in a little “delulu” era like I have, pretending things will stay the same forever (and I sometimes wish they would), here’s the truth: things must eventually come to an end. But endings don’t mean losing the relationships or memories we’ve made—they mean opening the door to something new.
God Has a Good Plan for You
Before I went to an interview recently, a friend wrote me a note with this Scripture verse:
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”— Jeremiah 29:11
God’s plans are always for our good, even when they require us to step away from what’s familiar. Trusting Him doesn’t mean dismissing the hard feelings of change—it means leaning into His promises when uncertainty tries to take over.
The truth is, God’s faithfulness doesn’t end when this season does. The same God who walked with me through my time at Belmont will walk with me in the next chapter. He has already gone before me, and He will continue to guide me.
Practical Tips for Transitioning
Navigating a big life change like graduation can feel overwhelming, but intentional steps can make the process smoother. Here are a few things I’m doing that might help you too:
- Give Yourself Space to Grieve
This might sound dramatic, but it’s okay to feel sad about what you’re leaving behind. Saying goodbye to a season, even when you’re excited for the next one, is hard. We weren’t made for goodbyes; we were made for eternity. The loss of seeing friends, roommates, or a community daily is significant. Acknowledge the sadness—it’s part of the process. - Journal and Pray Through the Changes
Writing down your thoughts and prayers can help you untangle the whirlwind of emotions that come with big transitions. Journaling allows you to reflect on God’s faithfulness in the past and trust Him with the unknowns of the future. - Set Spiritual Goals for the Next Season
Keep your faith at the center of this new chapter by setting spiritual goals. Maybe it’s committing to a regular prayer routine, finding a new church community, or starting a Bible study. These goals can help you stay grounded as you navigate change. - Celebrate the Season You’re Leaving
Don’t rush through this moment—take time to honor the memories, growth, and friendships you’ve made. Write thank-you notes to people who’ve impacted you, take photos to capture this chapter, and spend meaningful time with those who have been part of your journey.
Endings Are New Beginnings
Graduation marks the end of a chapter, but with every ending comes a new beginning. It’s a chance to trust God in deeper ways, to step into the unknown with faith, and to embrace the growth that comes with change.
So, if you’re facing a season of transition, take heart. God is already in your future, preparing the way. As you step into this new season, lean into His promises, celebrate the chapter you’re closing, and trust that He is writing the next part of your story with love and purpose.
With Love and Prayers,
A Soon to be Graduated Catholic Girl
Aka Jillian
